Lady LorReign Isn’t Who You Think She Is
Eighteen months into a career that’s already stacked up more firsts than most performers see in a decade, Lady LorReign is still the same person she was before any of it. Ranch land, hunting, a background in law enforcement, and a husband who shows up on set not out of obligation but out of genuine partnership — it’s a combination that doesn’t fit neatly into any single headline, which is probably why the headlines keep getting it wrong.
Her most recent work includes a six-man airtight scene for WIFEY, a Fleshlight Pro model cast directly from her body, and VR work for Naughty America. The résumé is expanding fast. But sit down with her for five minutes and what comes through clearest isn’t the milestones — it’s the groundedness. The sense that she’s building something with a longer arc in mind.
I caught up with Lady LorReign to talk through her sets, chemistry, preparation, and what it actually feels like to be exactly who you say you are.
An Interview with LorReign
Most performers talk about the learning curve like it’s some rite of passage you just grit your teeth through. You’re past the first six months now — what’s something about this industry you walked in completely wrong about, and when did that realisation actually hit you?
Lady LorReign: Yes! The learning curve…I still feel like I am learning something new everyday! Although, when I stepped into my first scene nearly eighteen months ago now, I was completely wrong about what I anticipated the environment on the set of an adult film to be. I pictured an older male with a video camera and a super horny male talent that was ready to get it on like a spider monkey on cocaine, lol. I’m just teasing, that is what the stereotype of shooting porn was portrayed to me as over the years.
Instead, I realized quickly that filming in the adult industry is indeed a highly professional environment, with other professionals that strictly follow all standards and laws. In my limited experience the studios and collaborations that I have been fortunate to film with provide a safe and welcoming environment and ensure that all of my boundaries are respected. In many cases they request a video acknowledgement and consent, followed by a recorded exit interview outlining my personal experience and acknowledgment as to whether or not my boundaries, needs and wants were honored.
A lot of people assume what keeps performers coming back is the obvious stuff. But you’ve talked about genuinely loving the on-set environment — the energy of it, the people, the whole thing. What specifically is it about that room that does it for you?
Lady LorReign: You are correct, I genuinely love creating our scenes. I do believe that it is a personal kink of mine to be watched, and I want others to be turned on by what they are witnessing. I love feeling and being in the moment, but quietly in the back of my mind I know others are watching and inside I hope to turn them on and fulfill their desire by enjoying myself in the moment.
I feel the energy from others and I either want to enhance the positive energy, or improve and replace any down or negative vibes I may feel from those around me during the filming.
There’s a difference between a scene that went fine and a scene you’re actually proud of. How do you know which one you just shot?
Lady LorReign: At this point I have experienced this on only few scenes out of the many that I have shot. Most generally I am extremely proud of all of the scenes I have shot with only a very few exceptions. Those exceptions did go fine, but I was unable to connect with my partner. Aesthetically and physically the scene is good, but there isn’t my usual fire that I prefer to exude with my physical encounters, whether filmed or not.
It may have been due to a variety of reasons, such as one of us feeling tired, or the hardcore part was filmed late in the day of a long day of filming for example. Overall I feel a great deal of pride in my scenes and with the incredible talents I have the opportunity to share the scene with.
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The Fleshlight Pro model just dropped. There’s something genuinely strange and kind of remarkable about having a product cast directly from your body and then sent out into the world. What was that whole process like, and has it actually sunk in yet?
Lady LorReign: I love this! I just received one of each new model and I had the ability to physically hold them in my hand. The feeling is unreal to me, and I am so humbled by it. Fleshlight made the process incredibly easy and comfortable. They facilitated creating the videos required of my anatomy to ensure the highest quality replica possible during my time at X3 in Los Angeles earlier this year.
They walked me through step-by-step on how to complete my profile and all of the online information that was required, and from there they guided me to a room with a highly professional member of their team who took the multiple videos of each orifice to ensure the lighting, angles and anatomy was correct for their mold process.
Within a few short weeks my Fleshlight was produced and added to their website and I signed on as an affiliate with Fleshlight. They didn’t stop there. If I have any questions, concerns or corrections, I have a direct line to talk with my liaison and she has always been more than willing to immediately assist me with any concerns or questions.
The six-man airtight scene for WIFEY is your most recent project — a legitimate first on multiple counts. How far out did you start preparing for something at that scale, mentally and physically, and what does that preparation actually look like?
Lady LorReign: This scene is one of my most favorites on many levels. Believe it or not, the air-tight aspect was completely unplanned originally. WIFEY provided a safe environment for my husband Anthony Ambrose and I to talk about our personal hardships that led us to where we are today for the very first time publicly in it’s entirety. It was liberating for both of us, and brought us even closer on a personal level, it was so emotional for us.
I was absolutely mentally and physically prepared for the six-man gangbang, as is it was not my first gangbang personally, but it was my first gangbang on film, and I was excited to share it with WIFEY. When WIFEY notified me of the nature of the scene, a six-man vaginal gangbang, I was so excited!
Personally I had never experienced DP before, personally or professionally, and internally I wondered what it would be like in that environment to experience a DP, although it was not discussed. I was at ease mentally, and I did physically prepare with a few daily enemas and limited diet beggining two days prior to our scheduled shoot date (My usual prep for a professional scene regardless of the nature).
While on the lunch break on set, Anthony and I began to discuss my desire to experience DP with two of the male talents, and surprisingly to me they said they would be more than willing to try. They gave me guidance on how to have a successful DP and that gave me the courage to approach our Producer Taylor and Director Derek and ask if they would be willing to allow me to experience DP in that particular scene.
I explained to them that in my mind, in that enviornment, with highly professional, experienced male talent, I would be honored to share my first experience with them. There was discussion amongst them, Vixen, and the male talent and once everyone was on board and consensual, we were given the go ahead that if during the filming our feelings all led us to an airtight scene, then we were good to go!
It was one of the most incredible sexual experiences of my life and it was enhanced 1,000% for me because Anthony was present and there with me to experience it. The gentleman that were my male talent, Chocolate Rod, Sheem, Jamie Knoxx, Mr. Johnathan Jordan, Jax Slayher, and Derek Savage were the most genuine, professional and considerate gentlemen and Anthony and I couldn’t have asked for more.
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You’ve shot traditional scenes, VR for Naughty America, and now a full gang bang production. Those are three pretty different rooms to walk into. Does your headspace shift depending on the format, or is the approach more consistent than people might expect?
Lady LorReign: This is a great question! For me personally, I enjoy every experience so much that mentally I am always open for something new, exciting and even challenging. My headspace when walking into a set, regardless of the nature of the scene, is remind myself to be in the moment, have fun, and enjoy.
That is the feeling I want for my incredible fans and anyone else that views my scenes. I love the creativity and diversity that each scene brings and I strive to learn more with every scene. I am very open and ready, regardless of the nature.
Given how much ground you’ve already covered in a short amount of time — is there a type of scene or a genre you genuinely haven’t touched yet that you actually want to?
LL: After giving this a great deal of thought, I tend to gravitate to a more “Type A” personality role. I would love to shoot a scene where I appear to be untouchable, a bit feared, but have a soft side that needs to be tamed by the right “One.” With that said, a role that would really be an unknown for me, but is intriguing, is to be featured in a submissive role.
A role where I submit and relinquish all control would be extremely foreign to me, as I struggle with giving up any type of “control” personally and professionally. I truly believe that would be a role that I would have to work hard to mentally and physically prepare for. It would be an incredible challenge, but at this point I am more than willing, keeping an open mind, in the right circumstances with the right talent and studio.
You’ve got this whole other life — ranch land, hunting, hiking, animals. That’s not exactly the world most people picture when they picture an adult performer. Does that side of your life ever collide awkwardly with the career, or have the people in it made their peace with it?
LL: I feel overwhelmingly fortunate in this aspect. My home life, my family, friends and support have not changed with the reveal of Anthony’s and my personal life, challenges and progression. We have outwardly received nothing but support as a whole. We learn more everyday, face new challenges daily and overcome hardships as they surface.
I’m still the same person I was before I made the decision to shoot my first scene with Hot MILFs Fuck, and fortunately the majority of the people in our lives realize that. We live and strive to be the best people we can everyday, regardless of our professions.
Your husband wasn’t just supportive of the WIFEY gang bang scene — he was actually there on set. That’s a specific dynamic that most people don’t have a reference point for. What does it actually feel like to have your partner physically present in the room during a professional shoot of that scale?
LL: It was an incredible honor and comfort to have Anthony with me during our WIFEY scenes. For us, it was very natural and flowing. We have been in a Swingers, Hotwife lifestyle for many years prior to our filming with WIFEY. The platform that WIFEY provided for us was exactly what we have done as a couple for well over a decade together. There was nothing foreign, uncomfortable or unexpected between he and I.
We feel fortunate to share our love and experience with everyone. Anthony is my life partner, my rock, and I can’t imagine my life without him next to me every step of the way. He is the most patient, forgiving, understanding, supportive, incredible, and genuine soul I have ever encountered, and I wish to experience every new, old and in-between with him there with me.
You’ve described yourself as fairly quiet and shy in your personal life. Then there’s what you do on camera. Is there a mental switch involved in that, or are those two versions of you less separate than they sound?
LL: [laughs] I do believe that I am the same person, but when I am enjoying the physical pleasures that come from sex, feeling another person, making them feel good, I think I lose all inhibitions and that’s when LorReign emerges. I am fairly quiet and shy, but when I’m pleasing another, feeling all the pleasure, I don’t consciously think about self or appearance.
Quite honestly, I enjoyed my WIFEY gangbang so much that I couldn’t remember all of the details until I had the opportunity to view it. Thinking about it, there must be a subconscious switch. I just genuinely enjoy what I am doing.
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You’re open to pretty much everything in terms of partners — all races, all genders — but solo content is where you draw the line. What is it about solo that doesn’t work for you? Is it the absence of connection, something about the performance dynamic, or something else entirely?
LL: Solos performances are becoming more comfortable for me. I never masturbated when I was younger, never knew or understood how to make myself orgasm and it has been a learned action over my time in the industry. It is difficult to articulate my initial hang-up with masturbation, but I am growing everyday, keeping my mind open. I am much more comfortable now than before with solo performances.
I have been fortunate enough to explore many different aspects of what the adult industry offers, such as fufiling custom requests, other content creation and most recently camming and steaming live. With that, there are many requests for solos. It is getting easier for me and it has become more enjoyable, knowing that others enjoy my solo as well.
Working across such a wide range of people — different genders, different backgrounds — has that actually shifted how you think about chemistry and attraction, or does the camera change things enough that it’s its own separate category?
LL: Fortunately, this has been an easy progression for me. Having the camera present has not changed anything for me. I have enjoyed all shapes, sizes, ages, ethnicities, genders and overall variety for many years. I enjoy variety and every interaction enhances me as an individual. I take a little bit from every one, learn from it and enjoy it.
You’ve stacked up a lot of firsts in a very short career. Does that create pressure — to keep topping yourself, to keep the momentum going — or do you approach each scene as its own thing without worrying about the through-line?
LL: So far I haven’t felt a pressure to exceed what I’ve done before, or push to stay on top. I truly am working to learn as much as I can, to continue to grow personally, mentally, emotionally and professionally, and I truly appreciate every day. The support that I receive from my fans, Anthony, friends, other talents and industry professionals has not given me pause to re-think the flow that is occurring for me.
I will continue to work hard, help others and push everyday, but overall I am extremely honored by the support and the flow and I continue to appreciate every opportunity I have to make others happy and fulfilled.
Every outlet that covers you tends to lead with the headline milestones. What’s something about you that keeps getting skipped over because the bigger story is easier to tell?
LL: The one thing that I hope for is for everyone, anyone, that comes across the “headlines,” is to know that I am me. I haven’t changed. I’m still the same person I was before the media coverage related to my time as a law enforcement officer, or now the positive media, thanks to all of my support. I want to continue to work hard. I want to build others up, I strive to become a mentor and guide for others, a support and eventually a role model for those facing adversity and hardship.
I want them to know that that they can overcome the low times and eventually flourish with the right mind set, seek out the proper support and succeed personally on what ever level they choose. How I became involved in the adult industry has become a bottom step for a much longer staircase I wish to climb and I hope to follow the best to the top and bring so many with me from that bottom step.
A year from now — what do you want people to be saying about Lady LorReign that nobody’s saying yet?
LL: A year from now I hope to hear that Lady LorReign is a down earth individual that appreciates every moment, every opportunity, learning experience who’s work is authentic and genuine. I enjoy variety and I hope to continue to incorporate that into what my fans want.
Thanks for the quick chat.
LL: Thank you for allowing me to share this with you and everyone.
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